Prepare Yourself……..
It's one thing to believe you're free when nobody is fucking with you.
It's another to discover what happens when you're challenged, criticized, misunderstood, rejected, afraid, offended, or confronted with something you think you cannot tolerate.
Suddenly, your magnificent range of human possibility gets very, very small.
That's the dancefloor we're offering.
Dojo is a held, experiential testing ground for investigating the ways you've learned to be human and experimenting with everything you believe you cannot be.
Bring your NO. Your resistance. Your certainty. Your forbidden ways of being.
We'll bring the provocations, experiments, and opportunities to practice. You bring your willingness to dance.
This is not a beginner's space, a healing circle, or another opportunity to intellectualize your shadows.
It's a place to discover whether you have more freedom, more choice, and more ways of being than you've ever allowed yourself.
Come find out.
Meet your guides…
Amber Kelly
Amber Kelly is a sex and intimacy priestess, relational provocateur, and devoted explorer of the wild, tender, contradictory experience of being human.
With a background in high demand religion, sacred sexuality, somatic exploration, and relational shadow work, Amber brings an unusual marriage of fierce inquiry, embodied practice, and deep affection for the messy, magnificent creatures we are.
Her work lives at the intersection of intimacy, eros, personal accountability, and the places where our carefully constructed identities collide with the reality of another human being.
She is particularly interested in what happens when our intellectual understanding of ourselves and even our dearest hope for ourselves exceeds our actual capacity to live it. When we know all the right words, understand our patterns, can articulate our wounds beautifully and still find ourselves attacking, collapsing, defending, appeasing, or abandoning ourselves when something precious feels threatened.
Amber isn't particularly interested in helping people become more palatable, perpetually regulated, or spiritually impressive she's interested in cultivating the capacity to remain present, alive, and available to ourselves and one another when the stakes are high and our familiar strategies begin to fail - or we fear they will.
Playful, irreverent, fiercely devoted to human wholeness, and unwilling to confuse comfort with care, Amber invites people to bring their hunger, their tenderness, their ferocity, their shadows, and the parts of themselves they've been taught to exile.
Her work is ultimately about expanding our capacity to be fully human, to love with greater courage, meet life with greater freedom, and become capable of choosing who and how we want to be, even when everything in us screams to do otherwise.
Kraye Grymonnt
Kraye Grymonnt is a coach, provocateur, and lifelong investigator of what it means to be human — and what else might be possible.
With a wildly varied background spanning emergency medicine, anthropology, clinical mental health counseling, and professional coaching, Kraye brings decades of lived experience, intellectual curiosity, and a healthy disregard for conventional answers to his work.
His fascination isn't with fixing people, transcending humanity, or teaching anyone the right way to think, feel, or behave. It's with investigating how we've come to believe we are who we are, how our values and identities have been constructed, and what becomes possible when we begin challenging the things we've mistaken for immutable truths.
Kraye is particularly interested in the places where our familiar ways of being stop working — where the strategies we've relied on for decades become the very things limiting our freedom, intimacy, courage, and capacity for something different.
Fiercely curious, irreverent, and unafraid to ask the questions that polite company tends to avoid, Kraye invites people to examine their certainties, experiment with unfamiliar ways of being, and discover that they may have far more choices than they've imagined.
His work isn't about polishing the personality or becoming a more acceptable human.
It's about becoming less of a puppet to your history, more capable of choosing who and how you want to be, and learning to burn as brightly as possible in a life you actually want to inhabit.
